redesign your relationship

​a great life doesn't just happen.

it takes turning the tv off, putting your phone down, and getting off the damn sofa...
it takes actually doing something about it.

tim lewis knows because he did it. we have been married for 25 years and our nest is almost empty.
​not long ago our sons were talking about girls as boys do. i chimed in with a "well, daddy and i..." story.
they looked and listened. i stopped myself and asked, "is it annoying that we always tell you our stories?" one said something like, "no. you guys have the perfect relationship. nobody is as happy as you are.
i want what you have. tell your story and then can we get pizza?" the other nodded in total agreement.

what they don't seem to remember is when they were little we were living in hell on earth. we hated each other. but we learned that if you are going through hell, keep going. people stay stuck in hell. the world seems to perpetuate the sitcom scenario that marriage is hard, men are stupid, and women hate sex.

we are proof that hell on earth is real, but so is heaven. the secret is, you have to save yourself. 

ain't no man can save me
there ain't no man can enslave me 
ain't no man that can change the shape my soul is in
there ain't nobody here who can cause me pain or raise my fear
'cause i got only love to share
if you're looking for truth, i'm proof...
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tim is not a traditional therapist anymore, on purpose. the best thing we ever did for our relationship was
investing our time and money in adventure, fun, experience, travel, and getting away together to remember why we chose each other in the first place. so we want to take you away for a weekend.

you will accomplish more in one weekend away with us than you would in weeks and weeks of traditional therapy and you will have way more fun. how does a weekend away in kiawah sound? or nyc? or asheville? we will plan a weekend that YOU will love and all you have to decide is what to pack. 

imagine breakfast in bed, time to seriously relax, picnic lunches, time for some fun, great dinners... we won't be all up in your business the whole time, but we will have real life conversations about the stuff you struggle with. we will tell you how we saved ourselves and teach you how to redesign your relationship. because you can do hard things. you can. it's a choice, really. so choose. 

• how do we have an awesome life?
• how do we let go of the things that make us so mad?
• how do we live all up and in the moment?
• how do we forgive each other?
• how do we find time for each other?
• how do we feel like lovers and not roommates?
• how do we love coming home?

these are the things we talk about.
these are the things that matter.

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we are currently booked until kingdom come.

​tell us about your relationship situation and get on the wait list.

but don't just wait. you got this.

we are our own problem and we are our own solution.

pack a bag and run away together for a weekend.

ready, set, go!

​xo...
tim and christina

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